{"id":4528,"date":"2026-07-23T19:04:12","date_gmt":"2026-07-23T19:04:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/koshalsambada.in\/?p=4528"},"modified":"2026-07-23T19:04:12","modified_gmt":"2026-07-23T19:04:12","slug":"d-h-lawrence-quote-quote-of-the-day-by-d-h-lawrence-and-woman-is-the-same-as-horses-two-wills-act-in-opposition-inside-her-with-one-will-she-wants-to-subject-herself-utterly-with-the-other","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/koshalsambada.in\/?p=4528","title":{"rendered":"D.H Lawrence Quote: Quote of the Day by D.H Lawrence, &#8220;And woman is the same as horses: two wills act in opposition inside her. With one will she wants to subject herself utterly. With the other &#8230;.&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"e9jwa\">\n<div class=\"vdo_embedd\">\n<div class=\"GfdvZ\">\n<section class=\"_bIDB  clearfix id-r-component leadmedia undefined undefined  E9tg9 \" style=\"top:0px\">\n<div class=\"_bIDB\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">\n<div class=\"ypVvZ\">\n<div class=\"WGttI\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/thumb\/msid-132585680,imgsize-114590,width-400,height-225,resizemode-4\/quote-of-the-day-by-dh-lawrence.jpg\" alt=\"Quote of the Day by D.H Lawrence, &quot;And woman is the same as horses: two wills act in opposition inside her. With one will she wants to subject herself utterly. With the other ....&quot;\" title=\"Quote of the Day by D.H Lawrence\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"Ta7d_ img_cptn\"><span title=\"Quote of the Day by D.H Lawrence\">Quote of the Day by D.H Lawrence<\/span><\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>D. H. Lawrence is one of the few writers who has provoked such admiration, controversy and debate. An English novelist, poet, essayist and literary critic, Lawrence challenged the conventions of his time, writing openly about love, desire, relationships and the emotional conflicts that shape human lives.<!-- --> In the early twentieth century, his works were considered scandalous, many being censored for their frank treatment of sexuality. Today, however, Lawrence is regarded as one of the most influential literary figures of the modern era, and his novels still serve as an inspiration for scholars and readers alike.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"3\"\/>David Herbert Lawrence was born on 11 September 1885 in Eastwood, Nottinghamshire, England. His father, Arthur Lawrence, was a coal miner and his mother, Lydia, was from a more educated middle class background. <!-- -->The difference in character of his parents had a deep influence on Lawrence&#8217;s way of thinking and later found expression in many of his novels. Lawrence was a bright student, despite modest circumstances.<!-- --> He was educated at Nottingham High School where he won a scholarship before training as a teacher. In these years he became very interested in literature, poetry and philosophy.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"9\"\/>His early novels, particularly Sons and Lovers (1913), were largely derived from his own childhood. The novel explores relationships within families, emotional dependencies and the tension between individual freedom and family expectations. It is now considered one of the greatest autobiographical novels in English literature.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"13\"\/><span class=\"strong\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">A writer ahead of his times<\/span><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"15\"\/>Lawrence held that industrialisation had alienated human beings from nature, from feelings and personal connections. He felt that modern society was becoming more mechanical and emotionally detached. <!-- -->Much of his writing was an attempt to recover what he thought to be the natural and genuine feelings of man.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"19\"\/>His best known works are-Sons and Lovers, The Rainbow, Women in Love, Lady Chatterley&#8217;s Lover and The Plumed Serpent. The novels dealt with subjects considered daring in his time \u2013 love, marriage, sexuality, identity, freedom, emotional intimacy and the clash between what society expected of you and what you wanted for yourself.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"22\"\/>The most controversial of these was Lady Chatterley\u2019s Lover. The novel was published privately in 1928 and banned in several countries for decades due to its explicit sexual content. An unexpurgated edition finally appeared in Britain in 1960, and the landmark obscenity trial that followed changed the way the public talked about literature, censorship, and artistic freedom. The court ruled in favour of publication, and the novel became a symbol of free expression.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"25\"\/>One of the things that set Lawrence apart from many of his contemporaries was that he did not concentrate so much on the external events but rather the internal emotional lives of his characters. His novels are rich in symbols based on nature: animals, forests, rivers, mountains and seasons, which often reflect human feelings. He thought that instincts were as important as intellect and that real relationships were founded on emotional honesty and not just social convention.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"28\"\/>Lawrence didn&#8217;t just give us simple heroes and villains. He gave us people who were deeply divided within themselves, and who were struggling with love, fear, desire, pride, and vulnerability. That&#8217;s part of the psychological complexity of his works, and part of the reason they still ring true today.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"30\"\/><span class=\"strong\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">Impact on literature<\/span><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"32\"\/>The influence of D. H. Lawrence is much wider than his own novels. He helped to change the English novel, encouraging writers to take on subjects that had previously been taboo. <!-- -->His openness about sexuality as an intrinsic part of human identity prepared the way for later writers to explore intimate relationships more candidly. His psychological insights helped shape modern fiction too. Lawrence had been exploring the unconscious forces that drive people&#8217;s actions long before psychology became a major literary theme.<!-- --> He believed human behaviour was more often ruled by feelings than reason.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"38\"\/>Today his works are not studied for their controversial content, but for the way in which they explore human nature, emotional conflict and personal freedom. Many of his ideas are still controversial, especially his ideas on gender, but his literary skills, and his willingness to push boundaries have made him one of the most important English writers of the twentieth century.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"40\"\/><span class=\"strong\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">Quote of the Day<\/span><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"42\"\/><span class=\"strong\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">\u201cAnd woman is the same as horses: two wills act in opposition inside her. With one will she wants to subject herself utterly. With the other she wants to bolt, and pitch her rider to perdition.\u201d<\/span><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"44\"\/><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"45\"\/>The quote compares a woman to a horse, a comparison that many contemporary readers find problematic as it mirrors the gender assumptions of Lawrence\u2019s time. <!-- -->The comparison, though is not literal, but symbolic. At the same time Lawrence suggests that a woman has two powerful and conflicting emotional impulses. Part of her craves complete emotional intimacy, trust and surrender in a loving relationship. That is not to say submission.<!-- --> Lawrence believed that deep love meant a willing openness to another person. And at the same time, there\u2019s another part of her that fiercely values independence and resists any attempt to dominate or control her, he says. <!-- -->This is where the horse metaphor comes in. Lawrence felt that a woman could swing between wanting to be close and wanting to be on her own, just like a horse might either tolerate its rider or suddenly throw him off and bolt. The quote shows what he saw as an internal struggle between connection and freedom.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"52\"\/><span class=\"strong\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">The larger context<\/span><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"54\"\/>Beyond the quote\u2019s focus on women, it also embodies Lawrence\u2019s broader belief that people are complex at their core. <!-- -->People often want two opposing things at the same time. They want to be near, but also separate. They want commitment but are afraid of losing their individual identity. They want emotional security but don&#8217;t like anything that feels limiting. Lawrence thought this tension was at the heart of many relationships.<!-- --> In his mind, love is rarely simple because it is always balancing the risk of vulnerability with the desire for self-preservation. <!-- -->Though he formulates the idea in terms of women, the underlying observation is more general and is taken as such by many contemporary readers. This is a struggle that all human beings go through , regardless of gender . It is widely accepted today by psychologists and relationship experts that all people struggle with intimacy and autonomy .<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"62\"\/><span class=\"strong\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">A contemporary view<\/span><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"64\"\/>Although he is still one of the most celebrated novelists in literature, many of Lawrence\u2019s views on gender are critically viewed today. The suggestion that women are inherently contradictory or the image of women as horses with riders are social attitudes prevalent in the early twentieth century, but are typically viewed as outdated and sexist by contemporary readers. Modern scholarship therefore tends to separate Lawrence\u2019s literary brilliance from his personal philosophy.<!-- --> His novels continue to be admired for their emotional depth, psychological insight and poetic language, even as some of his assumptions about gender are challenged.<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/life-style\/books\/features\/quote-of-the-day-by-d-h-lawrence-and-woman-is-the-same-as-horses-two-wills-act-in-opposition-inside-her-with-one-will-she-wants-to-subject-herself-utterly-with-the-other-\/articleshow\/132585285.cms\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quote of the Day by D.H Lawrence D. H. 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