{"id":28909,"date":"2026-09-26T07:05:58","date_gmt":"2026-09-26T07:05:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/koshalsambada.in\/?p=28909"},"modified":"2026-09-26T07:05:58","modified_gmt":"2026-09-26T07:05:58","slug":"lunch-time-par-ye-log-businessman-shares-why-being-too-friendly-and-kind-with-employees-might-do-more-harm-than-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/koshalsambada.in\/?p=28909","title":{"rendered":"\u201cLunch time par ye log\u2026\u201d Businessman shares why being too friendly and kind with employees might do more harm than good"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"e9jwa\">\n<div class=\"vdo_embedd\">\n<div class=\"GfdvZ\">\n<section class=\"_bIDB  clearfix id-r-component leadmedia undefined undefined  E9tg9 \" style=\"top:0px\">\n<div class=\"_bIDB\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">\n<div class=\"ypVvZ\">\n<div class=\"WGttI\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/thumb\/msid-134498140,imgsize-1615756,width-400,height-225,resizemode-4\/he-shared-the-video-on-his-instagram-handle.jpg\" alt=\"\u201cLunch time par ye log\u2026\u201d Businessman shares why being too friendly and kind with employees might do more harm than good\" title=\"He shared the video on his Instagram handle.\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"Ta7d_ img_cptn\"><span title=\"He shared the video on his Instagram handle.\">He shared the video on his Instagram handle.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Being kind and understanding with employees can make for a comfortable workplace. But according to an Indian home decor shop owner, being too lenient with staff can sometimes create a situation where employees stop taking work rules seriously.<!-- --> Rohit Malhotra, who runs an All Home Decor Products business, recently shared a video on Instagram (@rohit_0filter) in which he spoke about his experience of managing a staff of eight people. He said all eight employees were absent from the shop at around 10:30 pm and used the situation to explain what he sees as the downside of being too accommodating with staff. \u201cI have 8 members in my staff and you can check 8 out of 8 members, it&#8217;s 10:30 pm,\u201d Malhotra said in the video. <!-- -->\u201cIt&#8217;s 10:30 pm and no one has come to the shop yet.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"6\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>\u201cThe biggest advantage taken of you for being lenient\u2026\u201d<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"8\"\/>Malhotra said he does not believe in abusing or mistreating his employees. He contrasted his approach with shopkeepers who, according to him, are harsh with their staff. \u201cThe biggest advantage taken of you for being lenient is that your staff will not listen to you,\u201d he said. He added that he has seen shopkeepers abuse their employees but said that is not his nature. \u201cI take care of my staff very well. Like I have seen many shopkeepers who abuse their staff, but I don&#8217;t have such a nature,\u201d Malhotra said.<!-- --> However, he believes that treating employees well without maintaining clear boundaries can also create difficulties for a business. \u201cBut the biggest loss of being lenient is that your staff will not listen to you.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"13\"\/><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"15\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>\u201cI am lenient, but I face a lot of loss\u201d<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"17\"\/>Malhotra went on to describe what he said happens at his workplace when he is too flexible about timings. <!-- -->\u201cIf you keep your staff lenient, how does it work?\u201d he asked. \u201cI am lenient, but I face a lot of loss.\u201d He then pointed to what he described as a regular problem during lunch breaks. \u201cThey have been coming from lunch for 2 hours,\u201d he said. The video then shows one of the employees arriving at the shop. Malhotra pointed out the time and questioned how long the employee had been away.<!-- --> \u201cLook, one of them is coming.\u201d \u201cHe is coming now.\u201d \u201cHave you seen the time?\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"22\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>\u201cThese are their daily excuses\u201d<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"24\"\/>According to Malhotra, the problem is not limited to one particular day. <!-- -->He said employees regularly give different explanations for why they are late or why they have taken longer than expected. \u201cThese are their daily excuses,\u201d he said. \u201cToday I went here, today I went there.\u201d Malhotra said that, in his experience, simply being kind and accommodating does not necessarily make employees more responsible. \u201cNo matter how lenient you are with them, they don&#8217;t feel any responsibility.<!-- -->\u201d He ended the discussion by suggesting that he has observed this beyond his own workplace. <!-- -->\u201cIt&#8217;s everywhere.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"32\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>A businessman\u2019s experience with managing staff<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"34\"\/>Malhotra&#8217;s comments are about the difficulties he says he has faced while being lenient with staff, particularly over attendance and lunch breaks. His argument is not that employers should mistreat workers. In fact, he specifically said that he takes care of his staff and does not have the habit of abusing them. Instead, his point is about the balance between being considerate towards employees and maintaining workplace discipline.<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/life-style\/people\/lunch-time-par-ye-log-businessman-shares-why-being-too-friendly-and-kind-with-employees-might-do-more-harm-than-good\/articleshow\/134498061.cms\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He shared the video on his Instagram handle. Being kind and understanding with employees can make for a comfortable workplace. But according to an Indian home decor shop owner, being too lenient with staff can sometimes create a situation where employees stop taking work rules seriously. 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