{"id":27433,"date":"2026-09-22T14:56:40","date_gmt":"2026-09-22T14:56:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/koshalsambada.in\/?p=27433"},"modified":"2026-09-22T14:56:40","modified_gmt":"2026-09-22T14:56:40","slug":"idaho-teacher-67-retires-and-moves-to-delaware-to-care-for-her-grandchild-after-childcare-costs-matched-the-mortgage-now-she-spends-30-hours-a-week-caring-for-the-baby-as-us-childcare-costs-soar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/koshalsambada.in\/?p=27433","title":{"rendered":"Idaho teacher, 67, retires and moves to Delaware to care for her grandchild after childcare costs matched the mortgage; now she spends 30 hours a week caring for the baby as US childcare costs soar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"e9jwa\">\n<div class=\"vdo_embedd\">\n<div class=\"GfdvZ\">\n<section class=\"_bIDB  clearfix id-r-component leadmedia undefined undefined  E9tg9 \" style=\"top:0px\">\n<div class=\"_bIDB\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">\n<div class=\"ypVvZ\">\n<div class=\"WGttI\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/thumb\/msid-134414725,imgsize-466464,width-400,height-225,resizemode-4\/67-year-old-teacher-moves-across-us-to-care-for-granddaughter-as-childcare-costs-soar.jpg\" alt=\"Idaho teacher, 67, retires and moves to Delaware to care for her grandchild after childcare costs matched the mortgage; now she spends 30 hours a week caring for the baby as US childcare costs soar\" title=\"Pic credit: NPR\/ Lianne Milton\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"Ta7d_ img_cptn\"><span title=\"Pic credit: NPR\/ Lianne Milton\">Pic credit: NPR\/ Lianne Milton<\/span><\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Mary Jo Galusha, 67, a school teacher from Idaho, had a clear picture of how her retirement would look. Quiet mornings, self-care, reading time, and maybe a little gardening. Then her daughter, Stacia Bourne, called with news.<!-- --> Bourne\u2019s first child\u2019s daycare bill nearly matched the family mortgage. Bourne and her husband even hesitated to have a second child. But that ended in a question: could they actually afford a second baby?<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"3\"\/>&#8220;We were thinking we couldn&#8217;t afford it,&#8221; Bourne, a University of Delaware psychology professor who lives in Maryland, told NPR. So, Galusha decided to help. She now looks after her grandchildren. Her retirement plan looks more than perfect. <!-- -->And for the couple, this decision is nothing short of a blessing.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"8\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Leaving Idaho for grandkids<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<div data-pos=\"0\" class=\"id-r-component iIpbx undefined  &#10;        \">\n<div><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Idaho teacher retires at 67 to help daughter with childcare&lt;br&gt;\" msid=\"134414790\" imgsize=\"6289901\" resizemode=\"4\" width=\"\" title=\"\" placeholdersrc=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/83033472.cms\" offsetvertical=\"0\" placeholdermsid=\"47529300\" type=\"thumb\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/imgsize-6289901,msid-134414790\/idaho-teacher-retires-at-67-to-help-daughter-with-childcarebr.jpg\" data-api-prerender=\"true\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Stacia Bourne and her husband had their first child, George, in 2020. He started daycare when he was 2, but the cost wasn\u2019t something they expected. &#8220;The cost for childcare for him is about the same as our mortgage,&#8221; Bourne said.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"12\"\/>They were worried about whether they could afford a second child. That\u2019s when Bourne\u2019s mum, Mary Jo Galusha, offered: she could retire and relocate to the East Coast if Bourne was planning to have another baby. Many months later, the phone rang again. &#8220;I got a call that Stacia was expecting and that I better start planning on retiring,&#8221; Galusha recalled. She gave notice, traded her Volkswagen Beetle for an SUV with enough room for car seats, and drove across the country to Newark, Delaware.<!-- --> Robin, the second child, was born in late 2024, and Galusha spends 30 hours a week taking care of the baby while the couple goes to work.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"17\"\/>For Galusha, though, it\u2019s not a chore. If anything, caring for her grandchildren brings her joy. <!-- -->&#8220;It&#8217;s like magic to watch them grow up,&#8221; she told the broadcaster.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"21\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Rising childcare costs in the US<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<div data-pos=\"0\" class=\"id-r-component iIpbx undefined  &#10;        \">\n<div><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"US childcare costs soar\" msid=\"134414795\" imgsize=\"12163071\" resizemode=\"4\" width=\"\" title=\"\" placeholdersrc=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/83033472.cms\" offsetvertical=\"0\" placeholdermsid=\"47529300\" type=\"thumb\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/imgsize-12163071,msid-134414795\/us-childcare-costs-soar.jpg\" data-api-prerender=\"true\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Grandparents caring for their grandchildren is nothing new. However, the astronomical spike in childcare costs in the US has made this crucial for many parents.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"25\"\/>Childcare for children under five in the US costs an average of $13,184 a year in 2025, according to the group Child Care Aware of America. In some places, it can cost as much as rent or college tuition.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"28\"\/>Families who cannot afford childcare or find a place at a daycare are increasingly turning to grandparents for help, according to Nicole Jorwic of Caring Across Generations. &#8220;The reality is that because this country hasn&#8217;t invested in a childcare infrastructure that is flexible and affordable and reliable, grandparents are filling in the gaps that the service system leaves behind,&#8221; she told the outlet.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"30\"\/>For many families in the US, finding reliable childcare has become increasingly important, says Madonna Harrington Meyer, a Syracuse University sociology professor who studies ageing and grandparenting. In recent decades, the number of households with both parents working full-time has risen. In 2025, 52% of couples with children had both parents working full-time, up from 31% in 1975, according to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/social-trends\/2026\/06\/16\/how-family-work-arrangements-have-changed-over-time\/\" rel=\"noopener nofollow noreferrer\" styleobj=\"[object Object]\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" commonstate=\"[object Object]\" frmappuse=\"1\">Pew Research Center<\/a>.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"35\"\/>There has also been a steady increase in the number of single mums in the US over the course of decades. Families of children with disabilities also struggle to find specialised care. &#8220;All of these things are reasons people turn to grandparents,&#8221; Harrington Meyer said.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"38\"\/>And most grandparents are happy to help. According to a 2024 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.michiganmedicine.org\/health-lab\/grandparents-help-grandkids-many-ways-reverse-may-be-true-too\" rel=\"noopener nofollow noreferrer\" styleobj=\"[object Object]\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" commonstate=\"[object Object]\" frmappuse=\"1\">poll<\/a>, nearly half of grandparents with grandchildren under 18 cared for them at least once every few months.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"43\"\/>Another AARP <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aarp.org\/content\/dam\/aarp\/research\/topics\/social-leisure\/relationships\/essential-role-of-grandparents.doi.10.26419-2fres.00986.001.pdf\" rel=\"noopener nofollow noreferrer\" styleobj=\"[object Object]\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" commonstate=\"[object Object]\" frmappuse=\"1\">report<\/a> found that grandparents mainly provide childcare because their children are working or busy, and they want to spend more time with their grandchildren. The median amount of time they spend providing care is 200 hours a year, or about 3.8 hours a week.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"47\"\/>&#8220;But perhaps the biggest benefit is that they are so flexible. Unlike a formal daycare situation, often grandparents will come to your house, or they&#8217;ll alternate between watching the children at their own house and at the grandparent&#8217;s house,&#8221; Harrington Meyer added.<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/world\/us\/idaho-teacher-67-retires-and-moves-to-delaware-to-care-for-her-granddaughter-after-childcare-costs-matched-the-mortgage-now-she-spends-30-hours-a-week-caring-for-the-baby-as-us-childcare-costs-soar\/articleshow\/134414644.cms\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pic credit: NPR\/ Lianne Milton Mary Jo Galusha, 67, a school teacher from Idaho, had a clear picture of how her retirement would look. Quiet mornings, self-care, reading time, and maybe a little gardening. Then her daughter, Stacia Bourne, called with news. Bourne\u2019s first child\u2019s daycare bill nearly matched the family mortgage. 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