{"id":17041,"date":"2026-08-27T02:56:53","date_gmt":"2026-08-27T02:56:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/koshalsambada.in\/?p=17041"},"modified":"2026-08-27T02:56:53","modified_gmt":"2026-08-27T02:56:53","slug":"biological-parents-reveal-why-they-asked-surrogate-to-terminate-pregnancy-after-baby-was-diagnosed-with-serious-heart-condition-as-surrogate-refuses-and-seeks-custody-of-critically-ill-newborn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/koshalsambada.in\/?p=17041","title":{"rendered":"Biological parents reveal why they asked surrogate to terminate pregnancy after baby was diagnosed with serious heart condition, as surrogate refuses and seeks custody of critically ill newborn"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"e9jwa\">\n<div class=\"vdo_embedd\">\n<div class=\"GfdvZ\">\n<section class=\"_bIDB  clearfix id-r-component leadmedia undefined undefined  E9tg9 \" style=\"top:0px\">\n<div class=\"_bIDB\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">\n<div class=\"ypVvZ\">\n<div class=\"WGttI\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/thumb\/msid-133550813,imgsize-95289,width-400,height-225,resizemode-4\/biological-parents-and-their-surrogate-are-locked-in-a-legal-battle-over-custody-after-disagreements-about-the-pregnancy-and-the-babys-medical-future.jpg\" alt=\"Biological parents reveal why they asked surrogate to terminate pregnancy after baby was diagnosed with serious heart condition, as surrogate refuses and seeks custody of critically ill newborn\" title=\"Biological parents and their surrogate are locked in a legal battle over custody after disagreements about the pregnancy and the baby's medical future. (Photo: AP\/McKenna West)\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"Ta7d_ img_cptn\"><span title=\"Biological parents and their surrogate are locked in a legal battle over custody after disagreements about the pregnancy and the baby's medical future. (Photo: AP\/McKenna West)\">Biological parents and their surrogate are locked in a legal battle over custody after disagreements about the pregnancy and the baby&#8217;s medical future. (Photo: AP\/McKenna West)<\/span><\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>The biological parents of a critically ill newborn have spoken publicly about the heartbreaking circumstances behind their request for a surrogate to terminate her pregnancy after their unborn son was diagnosed with a serious heart condition.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"2\"\/>Nausheen Gilkar and Omar Ahmed hired 28-year-old nurse McKenna West to carry their child after years of unsuccessful fertility treatment. According to a report by Daily Mail, Gilkar told a Dallas court on Tuesday that she had gone through eight failed rounds of IVF before undergoing a hysterectomy.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"4\"\/>&#8220;This was our only option,&#8221; Gilkar said, becoming so emotional that the hearing was briefly recessed.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"6\"\/>&#8220;We&#8217;ve never wanted anything more than this baby.&#8221;<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"10\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Baby diagnosed with serious heart condition<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p>The court heard that West had signed a surrogacy agreement allowing the intended parents to request termination of the pregnancy in the event of fetal abnormalities.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"13\"\/>By April, however, doctors discovered that the baby had hypoplastic left heart syndrome, or HLHS, a serious congenital heart condition in which the left side of the heart is severely underdeveloped.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"15\"\/>The condition can require multiple complex surgeries shortly after birth and can be life-threatening.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"18\"\/>Gilkar has acknowledged that she and Ahmed asked West to terminate the pregnancy after learning about the baby&#8217;s condition. However, she denied ever intending to deny their son medical treatment.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"20\"\/>According to the couple&#8217;s lawyer, West also declined to undergo an amniocentesis during the pregnancy. The test could have provided doctors with additional information about the baby&#8217;s condition and helped determine whether he was a candidate for the open-heart surgery he would eventually require.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"23\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Rumi suffered complications after birth<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p>Baby Rumi was born on August 12 and immediately required intensive medical intervention.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"26\"\/>Gilkar described the frightening moments after his birth in court.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"28\"\/>&#8220;When they tried to give him medicine, the tube came out and he stopped breathing and chaplain was called,&#8221; she said through tears. &#8220;He&#8217;s suffering a lot.&#8221;<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"30\"\/>Rumi has since undergone genetic testing, blood work and echocardiograms. He also underwent the Norwood procedure, a complex open-heart operation used in babies with conditions such as HLHS.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"33\"\/>The surgery was reportedly delayed by several days, with the biological parents&#8217; lawyers arguing that West&#8217;s refusal to undergo amniocentesis contributed to the delay.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"35\"\/>Rumi remains in critical condition. His lawyer told the court that doctors may need another three to four weeks to determine whether the surgery has been successful, while the baby is expected to remain in intensive care for at least another month.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"38\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Parents say they have barely been able to hold their son<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p>Because of Rumi&#8217;s medical condition and his constant need for treatment, Gilkar and Ahmed have only been able to hold their son a handful of times since his birth.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"41\"\/>&#8220;He [is] the most beautiful person I&#8217;ve ever seen. He&#8217;s the love of our lives,&#8221; Gilkar said while wearing an orange hospital bracelet.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"43\"\/>The couple travelled to Texas on August 10 after West relocated there without their permission to give birth to the baby.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"45\"\/>The dispute has now developed into a custody battle between the biological parents and the woman who carried and gave birth to their son.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"48\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>California court had already recognised biological parents<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p>Lawyers representing Gilkar and Ahmed are asking the Dallas court to reject West&#8217;s claims to maternity.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"51\"\/>They argue that she signed a surrogacy agreement identifying herself as the carrier and recognising Gilkar and Ahmed as the child&#8217;s legal and genetic parents.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"53\"\/>The couple have already secured a significant legal victory in California, where a court declared them the sole legal parents of Rumi.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"55\"\/>West, who has two biological children of her own, has also been barred from contacting the newborn after the biological parents obtained a temporary restraining order.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"58\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Surrogate says she wanted to protect the baby<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p>West&#8217;s lawyers, who are being funded by the Alliance Defending Freedom, argue that she should be recognised as the baby&#8217;s mother because she gave birth to him.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"61\"\/>West has filed for custody of Rumi and is also suing the biological parents for breach of contract after they stopped paying her surrogate compensation.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"63\"\/>Defending her decision to continue the pregnancy, West told the court that she believed the baby deserved a chance at life.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"66\"\/>&#8220;I knew that I wanted to protect&#8221; the baby, she said.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"68\"\/>&#8220;I knew that he deserved to be protected and that he deserved a chance.&#8221;<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"70\"\/>West&#8217;s legal fees and living expenses are being covered by the conservative organisation, despite the fact that she has raised more than $128,000 through an online fundraiser.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"73\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Judge extends restraining order<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p>The nearly five-hour hearing ended with Dallas County Judge Ashley Wysocki extending the temporary restraining order against West for another 14 days while she considers the custody dispute.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"77\"\/>The judge also ruled that future proceedings in the case would be sealed to protect Rumi&#8217;s privacy.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"79\"\/>For now, the newborn remains critically ill in hospital as his biological parents and the woman who carried him continue their legal battle over his custody and future.<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/world\/us\/biological-parents-reveal-why-they-asked-surrogate-to-terminate-pregnancy-after-baby-was-diagnosed-with-serious-heart-condition-as-surrogate-refuses-and-seeks-custody-of-critically-ill-newborn\/articleshow\/133550797.cms\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Biological parents and their surrogate are locked in a legal battle over custody after disagreements about the pregnancy and the baby&#8217;s medical future. 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